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If this was written as a kind of comedy article, alright. As a German I can laugh about that. Experiences that I made over the course of 30 years in Germany, but still. You however have dated how many men in Germany? In what time frame? Of course these guys are terrible. So if you have developed your basic senses towards human interaction, you should be able to judge if someone is a fit for you without blaming race on it. BOOM — I love this article! Had to send it to my scandinavian friend who for some reason that is totally unclear to only dates German boys.

German boys are indeed very cute. To defend the author against all these upset commenters — can anyone deny these unfalsifiable facts about German boys? Google tinder statistics, I bet you find valid proof in those dark cornners of internet! I namely heard Germany produces the best marriage material and tinder is apparently not eligible for those matters. You should think about removing this insulting, racist, stupid article from your platform. If you want a romantic relationship, you really should not use tinder…omfg this really is no rocket science….

I once dateducation a german guy, but so much true about them, but he was soo cool, I would love to date one. He is the best person I ever met. He always cook and clean without me having to ask him, supports me in my goals in life. I have the best boyfriend I could have.

I have lived in Germany for more than two years but till now could not find a BF. I am well educated and looking for an educated and generous German man. Pls tell me how can I find?? I am totally lonely here. German guys are terrible when itcomes to dating. They have stereotypical ideas of women, liw self estwem and are absolutely decadent. Fir them you are never good enouigh. You can look beautiful, cook for them, be friendly and be understanding. If you do not fit into a stereotype which is idealized in misogynic internet subcultures, you have no chsnce.

Also, they are full of hate towards towards women which is baded on misogynic dating coaching sites they find in the internet. They have problems, treating women as equal partner. This article is redundant. I guess these stereotypes are quite true. All the same, massive generalisations and there is hope! This text clearly shows what americans and british think about germans, especially men. They live here in Berlin, but they humilate the locals every day.

They have no respect. They impose English as the oficial language in order to dominate us. For more than hundred years they wanted Germany to perish. I was born in Berlin and have been living here for all my life, except for the years I lived in Spain and Asia. But with all this open hatred against germans, I decided to leave Berlin. I cannot stand it any more living here….

It is really disgusting how germans are treated by british and americans. I have observed it several times: My understanding is that this text is clearly violating german laws. I agree with Holger that the text is an example of what anglo-americans really think about us german.

They are not friend or partners, they are our worst enemies. They want us to perish and they openly hate us. Germans wake up, stand up against it!!! I have worked for an amercian company here in Germany where the german employees have not only been constantly discriminated, they have been been beaten right to the face… This text is a stroke in face for every german men!

I have dated with German man. But unfortunately we lived in different countries so could see each other just twice a year. I cant even call it dating. But he was very reliable and lovely person. I even thought that we will marry but he always refused to talk about marriage. I am also was not so interested in marriage but it was the only way to be together. I loved him very much. But in our last meeting I was very nervous and stressfull mostly days as I had problems at work before it. When I returned to my home country we wrote each other again but he informed that as I was very stressful and nervous he lost to me interest: It was big shock for me.

I think that he never loved me and he never wanted to marry me. I was for him just a woman from Oriental world. What do you think??? Would like to hear opinions of German men. German guys found their partner at the age of You only meet the garbage left. But nice to read, you gained a lot of clicks for the german-english translation website. This is so spot on!

It also applies to German women. How is this country even populated? Germans are not really a different race so this is hardly racist. I stumbled unto this article by chance and after reading all these comments etc, I am not going to lie, i was very afraid. I have this German friend that i met, it is nothing heavy just talk and coffee and nothing heavy. I must say that he is a very respectful man and has not made wrong move on me, which is like but he is very structured and serious.

This guy by no means have been cheap as many of the ladies here complained about, and has always taken the tab for everything on dates, despite me willing to pay my share. The only thing that puzzles me is that he says i am to overwhelming, which i have been getting the opposite from American men who find me boring because I am not much of a passionate person.

I find it cute that he gets red when i hug him. It is a breath of fresh air being around a man i can be myself and not have to act fake to impress or would not find me boring because i am not into the talk about sex on the first date or any of the dates. We go around walking going to end and enjoy conversation and he can sit hours talking a bout work etc which i find fun and he can listen to me talking for hours about my soap making business, he finds it fascinating. I do not know where this would end up, but whether it blossoms into a relationship or not, at least, i at least got to know a nice person who is respectful and would be happy either way if it just stays in friendship or not.

FYI, the man works seven days a week and i find this very attractive in a man. I personally do like my space and do not like men who want to be in my face like a needy child all the time. What an idiotic article. They will take you to a bar, talk about boring stuff like groceries, will NOT smile at you for the whole evening, but — expect sex afterwards. Happened every time until I stopped dating German men. Sadly, you are neither. I thought Im the only one noticed til i had a convo with my friend and she said the same thing she can compare a lot as she is more experienced with other Nationalities.

Theyre smart and logical. After I read about German men!!! I was blown away.. Coming from a country, where women are catcalled and not treated equally nor with respect. I would love to live with one and share my life with one. Like other commenter had said.. Intentions are more deeper than external indications. We want more real and practical men, while faking, flirting and obvious, loud romanticism is for movies and stays good there. Your lady luck will come for you running that too bare footed!!! Haha, I am so sorry for you frustrating experience… Not all Germans are like that though..

I actually dont know what to say.. There is much truth to this. Living in Germany for many years both in a relationship and dating , I can say that the shy passivity of German men is a big turn-off. Then the stiff awkwardness and having a different sense of humor…all of these make it difficult to date and have fun with German men. I never have and probably never will have sex with a German. This is spot on. He is so so bat at flirting it actually makes me cringe.

Whenever he mentions sex related topic he always uses the see no evil monkey covering its eyes! He is 52 for crying it out loud! Not a little piece that someone wrote on the internet. So stop whining and be a man. I have dated multiple german men, and yes, I totally agree.

But hell, this article made me giggle because of its accuracy, for sure. German men are filthy losers who require a huge prostitution industry to satisfy their dog and anal sex fetishes. Their fucked up idea of governance is to not collect data or share any intelligence between states, because Germany is the den of Freemasonry. Remember, most German bankers funded the GDR as protestant experiment to see how far they could monitor citizens.

Notice how the German men curse so much and have very short fuses and very low self-esteem hidden by a loud and rude behavior. Also notice the names of the native German women claiming all the German men they date are so magical. Native German women have serious issues and are pretty stupid people. I was in relation with a German guy.

Je was married but his wife quitted him and did not pay attention to him. She was completely depressed when I met him. His wife was always in trip and enjoying life with friends. I did everything for him. We had a good seconds and although he were not so hot but he learnt how to do it. I knew every of his fantesies and what he can be satisfied. The details that even his wife did not know and we did what was new for him. But being as a trustable person I should tell they are not.

His quitting wife came back and he prefered to remain with that woman who only cared about expensive things in her life. She never cared when his husband needed her. But he quitted me because of this woman. Only because she was a fashion model. I can tell I will never trust a German man, because whatever one do for them, they do not care and only be ignored by another woman is attractive for them.

Let us be honest: Who likes german men, the least attractive men in the world? They are racists, killers by birth, criminals, the scum of the earth to be blunt. They are responsible for million people killed in the last century. I think we should establish new concentration camps for all of them and let them perish. All problems would be solved. Or let us make them our slaves. Nobody will ever miss them.

No women will cry for them. German women prefer foreign men, who are superior. They adore us, the americans and british, not the uggly germans. What has happened to this world that we cannot accept that other people are different than us? Why can we not accept that people have different upbringings, a different culture, a different character, are different in general.

Why do we think that any other person on this whole wide world has to share the same values and be similar to oneself? I live now for seven years in Berlin and I have to say I am disgusted by the intolerance and yes you can say it — actually racism — I am facing in this city. Is there really something like the typical German in this world — what are we gonna say next — the typical jew — the typical Afro-American — because this is I think considered racist.

I have been on an on-off relationship with a Canadian with Asian heritage for four years. At the beginning of our relationship I asked her to come to a wedding with me as a means to get to dive into German every day life. I thought she would pay transportation and half of the wedding present as I would have done. We had a huge fight after I asked her the money after the wedding. She always emphasizes how emancipated she is and how independent and it was still a big thing for her that I pay everything.

And you can call me everything but in the end I am still a human being and it was a misunderstanding partially due to our different cultural backgrounds. To be honest I even like these misunderstandings from time to time, learning how every one is different and has different backgrounds. And I have to say it makes me sad as hell to see these expats in Berlin for like I said seven years now who are ignorant of the different culture, language and people who surround them.

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I love weird and unusual stuff, so I called him on the phone. I am currently dating a German man. I am an American of Indian heritage. But though my parents are originally from India, I am completely Americanized or almost completely. So the culture clash is not as big as it would be probably if I was actually Asian! But anyway, there is a stereotype that Germans are like coconuts that I think is true, they have this tough exterior but are sweet on the inside. This guy I am dating is one of the most honest people I have dated.

My German guy is also almost like a machine in terms of how precise he is, which can have good and bad points as well.

The written word, mostly good.

So I told him that my Mom would love it, except it would have to be vegetarian for her. So then the following week he calls and asks if he can come over and cook that same meal for my Mom, but vegetarian. And then he does. He comes over with all the ingredients neatly packed in separate containers and cooks the meal in our kitchen and serves my Mom.

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But why are you dating a guy? Is it to get someone to support you or do you want an equal partnership? Then I will treat him sometimes as well. Once he figured out that I refuse to split the bill but I am happy to take turns treating — then no problems. Anyway, I really like my German guy.

I mean, we are all unique individuals. But of course our culture does influence us… so a disorganized German might still be more organized than a disorganized Indian, or an introverted American might still be more extroverted than an introverted Swiss. But whatever cultural quirks or other issues, I do think the fact that he is a very honest person does make it easier to navigate those things. Maybe it just means you are not a good fit for that particular culture but someone else might do just fine? I think ours comes from Catholic oppression.

This article — though extreme — is pretty spot on. I laughed so hard about the monkey covering his eyes Emoji… That was the only way I knew if the German dude I was dating was flirting!! And he was fucking amazing in bed and had a lovely sizeable ;member. Except for personality — maybe I would have seen some in about 5 years. I was familiar with interacting with Germans and I did my research online too.

We have been together for 8 years now and have three children together. Your email address will not be published. Some German on Tuesday April 5th, at Outrolado on Tuesday April 5th, at Frank on Tuesday April 5th, at Emma on Wednesday April 6th, at Jasmina on Wednesday April 6th, at Jules on Thursday April 7th, at Anonymous on Thursday April 7th, at Chris on Saturday April 9th, at AmiGay on Monday April 11th, at Carolyn on Monday April 18th, at B on Wednesday May 4th, at German Guy on Friday June 3rd, at Amanda on Thursday June 9th, at Skye on Wednesday June 15th, at Adolf on Tuesday July 5th, at Mikela on Tuesday July 5th, at Ola on Tuesday July 5th, at I am not agree.

Gin on Tuesday July 5th, at Mike on Tuesday July 5th, at Lena on Tuesday July 5th, at Yo on Tuesday July 5th, at Anon on Wednesday July 6th, at This is dating bzw Fickvereinbarungen on Tinder. German men are fantastic, loyal, reliable, and keep a clean toilet. Berliner on Wednesday July 6th, at Me on Wednesday July 6th, at Mikew on Thursday July 7th, at Poor poor racist view..

Sounds more like frustrated girl looking for a skape goat… Good look with your karma. Emilia on Thursday July 7th, at Tirighetta on Thursday July 7th, at Annita on Friday July 8th, at Jake on Tuesday July 19th, at If you want to meet the fun-oriented germans just head out to KitKat on Saturdays…. Does it get any more racist thant this? Naz on Thursday September 1st, at Dave on Friday September 2nd, at We would chat alot sometimes I would forget to reply, sometimes he would and that continued for a month and a half. I had an opportunity to visit him in Switzerland for two days so I booked a bus ticket and we decided to hang out together from Friday evening.

Things went really well, he bought dinner worth euro he earns alot so i guess price didnt matter to him.. Whereas to me it did and then we went street partying and ended up kissing for 4hours and then he walked with me all the way to my hostel and decided to see each other again the next day. So saturday I spent the whole day with him, he suggested not taking the bus back home so I cancelled it and took the other one on Sunday morning so saturday evening i stayed at his place, making out but no sex.

But he admitted that he never fell so quickly for someone like this before and we both verbally said that we liked each other alot. And he said that he would come to my residing city in Germany on the end of the month because he had work anyways. And then I went back to Germany. After that we messaged everyday, he went to asia to travel for two weeks holiday and we would write when possible.. Turns out, his work schedule changed and he had to go to another city in Germany instead of Munich where I reside, but he still managed to come all the way from Friday afternoon till Sunday morning.

He left his workplace on friday early for me.. Booked a hotel for his stay but I was also allowed to have breakfast and use the lounge etc.. Maybe I should have.. Anyways I left Europe, now back to my home country and he said he will visit in November but nothing is sure.. And we do text everyday but I dont know if its because of the time difference or if it is because of his text style but I only hear from him once a day, maybe messages on whatsapp, very short and just informative ahaha and I dont know what I have to do because the text is not enough for me..

I like him alot but I dont know what is in his mind.. Was I just for fun, did he come all the way for sex or smth he would never be flirty through text! I met a German guy online, this website is for people who learn the German language. He messaged me first then added me on skype. Then at first he seems to be so eager to know me. He also told me about his siblings and some other stuff. Those things happened for two days only. On the first day we had video chat, then wow omg he was so handsome.

His smile is so charming, but he looks so tough. He seemed to be comfortable talking to me. Then when I saw my profile on that website where we met I saw that he unfriended me. Then on the second day, I chatted him first then he replied and asked me about my plans in the future and how long have I been single. I told him wow what a random question. I then asked him why do you ask? THen he said why do I ask what?

For me to get to know you more.. All that stuff, my comment is getting so long now. Then now, I just chat him earlier I said sorry for disturbing you today then I asked him to translate something for me in German. He just said bitte and never asked ff up questions. I like him but he broke my heart: We both got along really great and he would do little things like put his hand on my back and turn to look at me and smile for no reason, but he would never kiss me, hold hands or anything like that.

And he would always want to pay for everything. Then on our 9th or 10th date, he took me up to the rooftop of his apartment to stare at the stars. I was thinking it was all very romantic and he was finally going to kiss me. It came so out of the blue that I just told him I was fine with being friends. Because you can stay and sleep in my bed. The next time we got together he asked me if I was dating anyone because he admitted to looking at my dating profile and saw I had put up a new photo. Then for the whole rest of the date he would continue with the small touches on my back and at one point put his arm around me.

Toward the end of the night, he kept trying to prolong our outing by suggesting we stop at different places for a drink. Then a few days later he left for Germany to visit his family and texted me while he was there. I sent him a text back and have received no reply. I can relate in some of the stories.

We decided to meet in person but it took a while because of our busy scheds. But when i met him, he was really nice, he paid the bill tho i offered to split it. He was gentleman,cute and intelligent l. We had a nice convesation tho it was a quick one because i have to work in the afternoon. Then he told me that he is looking forward in meeting me again. He travelled often and when he was back which was last week, he asked me out again. I feel good when im with him because he is such a gentleman. The kind of guy who would rush to held the door open for you. Coz i walk fast.

On our most recent lunch, he would put some food on my played which made me feel good. He told just the other night that he would love to cook for me one of these days. I think its funny because tho i know that he made an effort to see me but i cant jump into a conclusion if he likes ne or what or maybe just expanding his circle of friends are we are both expat in this country.

So i guess i will just go with the flow. So im not sure if i should ask him or what.. I am glad to have found this link and get some ideas about a German man. Hi Can anyone help? We moved in together 4 months ago and things are good on the surface but I often feel like something is missing? He has a quieter personality but he fits most of the criteria mentioned in this article too. The sex has been good but not as frequent as it could be. Things hit a low point when he turned up late for a family dinner recently as he had to work late. He was hardly apologetic and was so tired, he made less of an effort talking to my family.

Who are really important to me…especially if we were to have a future together. Again it started to bother me he was so quiet. Any advice out there? I had to smile when I read Your discription about Ger-Men! I am one of these exotic animals. My first encounter with seeing a German dude. Met him via timder , he was here in the city for 3 weeks for work.

We met up for dinner. We split the bill which was cool for me given we just met on tinder. He was pretty charming and authentic as well as handsome. We had drinks I stayed over and then left the next morning. It felt quite natural. He got busy I got busy and we had random late night messages.

He was not one to talk about sex, he was enthusiastic that we have had good conversations about all sorts of topics. Not something I would normally do given he was essentially a stranger. He was very about schedules which I put down to him being here for work.

He was cute cos there was a boyish charm about him from asking me about what Color he should wear.. He invited me to have drinks at the hotel he was at with his colleagues. He went back to Germany — we talked and he invited me to see his beautiful city. I have just come back and it was an interesting time. I stayed with him during that time — a week. I was concerned I would be in his way and wanted to starless bit he was insistent. I needed attention — a kiss a hug , touch.. And it definately not natural to him.

He is a very warm person with an extremely good heart. But touch is not something that comes naturally. Chivalrous and a gentleman in every other way. He went out of his way to cook for me everyday but yet night times were odd. When it was time for me to leave he took me to the airport and invited me back anytime whether he was there or not to stay at his place. I have hardly heard from him. He comments on my social media but cannot seem to have a convo longer than hello.

Your post is very interesting and informative, thank you! I have been talking to a German guy for almost two months and we finally went out. Things were going very well and we met every week consistently for three weeks and he expressed his interest for me throughout. He also actively texted me his location when he was traveling out of town for work. I like him a lot as he is always genuine and kind. But after the third date after he tried to crack a really dry joke to inform me that he is back in town and I replied with sarcasm because he unknowingly offended me , he stopped texting me actively.

So I decided to text him first for the first time to ask when he wanted to hang out again. He gave me a smiley when he received my text but told me he was busy over the weekend. He did explain in detail who bothers to explain in detail if they are not interested? I would really appreciate any form of insights from fellow readers.

I have a German Boyfriend and I am a Filipina. At first I was hesitant since he was so cold and boring but he is such an honest guy. Until we finally decided to meet each other. And I was so surprised he is sooo sweet and loving. For 21 days that we were together we spent most of the time in our room than strolling around but both of us love beach and diving. Now, he is back to Germany and looking forward to be with him again on April. I miss him badly.. I writing to get some advice about a German man I met online.

We have been chatting going on three months. The picture he had on his profile showed that he was an handsome 49 year old. Im a retired 53 year old woman from the United States. I ve had one other long distance relationship when I was 17 and it was with a boy in the navy. I will call my German man,Andy to protect his privacy.

We broke up a day before New Years Eve,bad timing right?.. What a way to start off the New Year!!!.. He did ask me if he sent me a plane ticket ,would I fly to his state and spend the new year with him. Let me back up to the time period before we broke up,our attraction to each other quickly turned into friendship and before a month was up,he had already told me he had feelings for me and the feeling was mutual..

We shared alot of personal aspects of our life during these two months,except where he worked but he told me how much he made and how many children we each had,etc.. He rarely ask me anything too personal but when he did,i promptly answered him. One thing I did notice was he is very laid back,easy going,had a sense of humor,and well mannered. I waited the whole day,woke up the next day.. I finally just said I was going to be just as stubborn as he is.. Finally out of nowhere he texts me,.

I wanted to add,i love Andre and he loves me. I adore his boyish charm and sensuality. I want to be submissive to him,but i also want a partnership with him.. Very interesting story, I wish the best for you two. I would suggest that you go for a trip to the state where he leaves or nearby to relax and have a time for yourself, then when you feel comfortable enough you meet him. I just want to say that was a whole lot of reading in one sitting.. Thankyou all for sharing so much…it has definitely taught me a lot..

He gave me his number and we already chat on whatsapp for one month. Is he shy or something? I just wonder if he really in to me or not. We are in a really big gap of time difference. We had drinks, later that week I spent the night. It was cool, he seems sweet. He has no free time. I like him so much.

I am an American woman and I have met a German man on a date site, we have been texting on and off throughout everyday. He said he wants to spend all of his life with me through all eternity. I too have very deep feelings for him. He asked me to get a bank account in my name so he could fund it so I could buy things and could pay things he needed done here in America until he got back here.

He has spoken of us getting a home together and being married. I want to trust him fully but am a little sceptical as to what to think, can somebody please give me some insight as to what is happening. Have you met the guy? Are you in a physical relationship, or just digital? I believe bank accounts should be nowhere in the conversation until you are at least in a committed relationship where you feel comfortable.

Im gegenteil, the German dating website on a go-slow

The fact that you are posting here means you have suspicions, and that should be a sign. Just be honest, you need time to know a stranger before you are opening bank accounts for each other! No one can understand German typically. Hence, he did proposed me after years and half dating, well that was bloody long years of engagement! Indeed he was a good man and never cheat me.

He criticised my interest, even I tried to make my self look good for him he told me no one want to see it. That was slam straight on my face. I even need to tell him please pull the chair for me or door. This is simple thing to do to show how gentleman you are. Even he is kinda forcing me to learn the German language in a years, when he know this is not easy for me.

Wow I am so impressed how German treat a woman. Even my local man will never do this. So cold and insensitive. This really came in handy! In the end hold on to the fact that yes, it might not go the way we want, we will all move on. Help me understand this guy please! I met my German friend online, Facebook to be precise and that was 3 months ago. All I want to know now is, what plans do you think he has?

On day two of Tinder chat we exchanged numbers and graduated to whatsapp. Within that first week we video called. He is a sweetheart and tells me daily how good and fantastic I am, how my eyes and my smile warm his heart. He told me that I have a special place in his heart and that he loves his coffee like he loves me; black, hot and sweet. We exchange LOTS of hugs, cuddles and kisses every chancewe get but never has he brought up or even hinted sex.

I eagerly anticipate our meeting! Ok German experts, please help. Do I got myself a man or what? He has never been with let alone met a black person so could I be just a fetish? Black girl with exotic features? I met my German man online dating and after two weeks talking we decided to meet. At first I was afraid to meet him because I always have fear of rejection. But in the end I thought we should meet, he was very caring and looked at me in a way no man has ever looked at me. After the date he wanted us to meet again and again and later invited me to his place and was such a gentleman to not force anything.

We made love and he invited me to go on a trip with him for four days because it was public holidays, we went away together and all the way he carried my bags and his and still did everything for me. I would definitely love to spend the rest of my life with sven because he sees me for who I am and I am in love with him that I want to spend the rest of mylife with him.

At the first time we meet, just walk around, when I said I want to loose weight, he lifted me up and said that I dont need to loose any weight. I was very shy because of that. Then he ask me he wonder, Asian dont kiss and dont hug, how can they be couple and ask me how many time we need to meet before I can come to his flat for watching film together. I said only watching film is ok. Then I came and we only talk and watch a film, ate some cake.

Yesterday, he invited me to his place, he make some cake and offer me to try. I came and I also cook Asian food for him. He likes the food and we enjoy the time, telling some jokes and walk around. I can say I like him but his actions cause me confusion. He rarely texts me in weekdays, only at weekend. And I never know if he will text me this weekend or not. This was really helpful for me. I am a latina and for me it is even harder with the german I am dating. We met about a year ago in a trip to an island in the caribbean. We were next to each other in the hammocks for about 5 to 6 hours before we start talking.

We spend together the 3 days I went to this island and then we agree to meet again in Cancun before each of us depart to our countries. I have visited him for two weeks then he came to my country for 3 weeks. But yeah, he is sweet in actions but no words. We get along realm well. I am invited for Christmas and for me it is so weird because in Latin America those serious things.

I mean my family barely knows about him, he met my mom as a friend. So for me it is hard to understand his intentions or feelings. But know that I read this… He might be sweet in his own way. I even talk with his older sister once through his WhatsApp, she wrote me a we talk for 10 minutes maybe. But signs are still very confusing. Sometimes I think I should quit. Mostly because I feel insecure he might not feel anything serious for me. We used to kiss more and passionate but that always ended up in more. For some reason now he only shared little kisses the last time like when you say hi to a boyfriend because if we kiss to passionate it all ends too passionate.

But he did this. I have decided to take things slow. We video chat at least twice a week because the difference of our schedules and he works a lot. And he used to had dating sites in his phone not now because the phone was stolen but he never deleted them. His german friends the cupid ones told me he never talks about girls he is 33 but they think he might like me seriously because he talks about me.

He paid for a lot when I went to his country. All this time he might have holder my hand 3 times and I have got a bit passive aggressive a couple times because they is no more sweetness but then he carried my backpack when I was tired while trekking, do what I want we went to see the beauty and the best haha. So I try to ask if he talk with his boss about the position he want or ask him what he wants, so I can help him somehow. I guess only the future will tell but thanks for the article…. I have a boyfriend from Germany but am in Nigeria It been cool tho ,just wanted to know more about German guys,thanks.

Thank you for the insights. My german man is 24 years younger than me. We met through a mutual friend when I was on vacation to a Caribbean island. He is good looking and smart. We are both doctors. He per sued me for three days before I could no longer resist him. We had a great time together. For the following 9 days we were glued together. We made love every night except for one night when he had to prepare for an important phone call. Initially we were restrained in public but after 3 days we were carefree hugging and kissing in public and everywhere.

Initially I treated the encounter as an affair but on my Last day I had tears in my eyes, I knew I loved him. Apparently, he cried too and felt sad to see me go. We agreed to stay in touch and meet again. Immediately after I left, he wrote beautiful short notes,expressing his love, adoration and how badly he missed me. He still writes almost every day and sends kisses and love and is telling me he is missing me. Today, at last after repeated requests and two months of separation, we spoke on the phone. Our conversation lasted 45 minutes, remarkable for someone who does not like phones.

He expressed a deep interest in me my daily life and religion. I noticed he does not like to be told…. I feel he is in love with me but is fearful of something. He wants us to be together but is not sure how to go about it. He displays many of the attributes of german men described above but seems to try hard to win me.

When I suggested cooling off my love for him he begged me not to…. I love him more and more everyday but find long distance relationship to be very painful and more so when communication is very minimal. I am respectful of his dislike of social media and phones and keep communication to a minimum. Today he suggested i could come to Germany if I wish too. I am Confused…not sure what to feel or think about our relationship.

One more thing there is another woman whom he dated for 7 years, another long distance situation. It the relationship died 2 years ago but he is slowly realizing or not ready to admit it. Hi, Am Victoria from Nigeria. I like German guys. How can I get to them? A little over a week ago there was a big car race in my US city and I was attending it for the first time with a friend of mine who has gone many times.

The Friday before the race on Sunday there is a fan fest, and I met my friend there. So, we ended up on a rooftop bar to watch a performance below. Right before leaving, I see this guy in front of me kind of yelling something to another guy. I kind of hear an accent, so I asked him if he was English, it was like I just naturally and automatically did this!

They had just gotten into town first time, THAT day for this race. After talking we discussed all meeting up at the race so he and I exchanged numbers. So, that evening we went for 1 beer talked, took a walk, and def enjoyed kissing! He was telling me that I was very special and different for him and loved that we both like cars.. It was just a very strong attraction between us. So after our meeting he is texting me saying I am sweet etc.

So, he was asking if we can meet at the same parking area for the race there are like 10 different areas. In line for the race at 1 am. Thousands of people go to this race! I was like so excited saying hello to him and smiling! The strange thing is, he did not even remotely act happy to see me.

The whole time he seemed cold! So, the cars finally start going after about 1 hour, and I tell him, I think we are parking at this other area, and they should come there.

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So, we went to our chosen spot you cannot leave where you park until about 6 pm the next evening. I never saw him and I knew they decided on the other spot. Next day we are heading back down the mountain, and as soon as I get service I see texts from him saying I should have come up to their area, and how he was actually walking around looking for me when I saw him the night before! Ya know, if he would have seemed happy to see me, I would have pushed my friend to go park in their area and spent the day at the race with him.

So he goes on about how he really wants to see me before he leaves the next day. I wanted to see him too! We were both so exhausted but still met up for one last time. He was extremely sweet and honestly gentlemanly! It was a Sunday night, and we got a coffee and went for a walk, and talked, and kissed.

He left the next day and texted me everyday he was still in the USA. I just really wanna see him again, and keep in touch…but more than anything I want to know how he feels.

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  • I mean we never directly made an agreement about keeping in touch, but just have… He did tell me that I was very special and he loved how I am in pretty much all mannerisms. I feel the same. It truly happened when I least expected it! What should I do? Just directly ask him? That weekend actually changed my life!

    Any input or advice would be very helpful! Its not my first time to go to see this website, i am browsing this web site dailly and obtain nice facts from here every day. He is direct, intelligent, well-traveled, and funny. Also, sex is freaking amazing!!! This is coming from a girl who has had an experience with a confident and proud Italian. I have been spending time with him for over a year now and we never had the talk.

    I was not looking for something serious when I met him and I usually put my emotional walls up high, but there is no doubt I am attracted to him. He is really sweet and a true gentleman. We always split the bill though, only because I told him when we met that I am uncomfortable when other people pay for my bill.

    I am an Asian in my early 20s while he is in his late 20s, we are both expats and busy with our careers. He travels a lot when he has projects abroad, but we make sure we see each other once a week regardless if his projects are within the country or abroad. And even if I really like him I am also trying to weigh our future plans considering that we are both expats — we both want to be somewhere else in 3 years and honestly, I think we both place a higher priority on our careers.

    It's not impossible: the ups and downs of dating in Germany - The Local

    I am a difficult person. I recently met a man from Germany on omegle out of all the places he caught my eye with his blue eyes and blonde hair. Keep in mind I usually date tall, dark and handsome. This guy was quite the opposite not dating yet. We have kept in touch for about a month or so as he has a very busy schedule being a graduate student studying artitechure and working part time. First time talking we I was the only with a mic and him on video.

    He was very well versed in English and kept commenting on how American my accent was Latina but raised in the U. His way he conducts himself is sweet but yet reserved. Seems crazy to think after time after time talking something is still gravitating me towards him.

    It actually really stinks knowing we are 9 hrs apart, so making time to talk is rough. He has said after he completes his masters and finds a job that there might be a possibility of him wanting to visit or into come. Well this has been it to this point.

    German men are exactly like milk chocolate very sweet, warm, and bold. Crazy stuff I say. I met this German man on a dating app. He said he deleted the app because he thinks he has it right this time. He flew back to Germany from the US where he has been living. But he asked if he could transfer money to my account because he cannot get a bank account here, he needs a ITIN. I was okay with it until he asked for my account and routing number. Do all germans work alot? I met this guy online and he is always very busy working.

    Initially, we would chatted on skype for the 1st 2 weeks. A few days ago he went quiet. I really dont understand this. The last time we chatted, he greeted me, wished me a blessed day and promised to chat later. This has not happened. Can see he was online but has not left a word. Just wondering is he for real. I had started developing feelings for him and he had even said he would be visiting in October.

    I am now confused. Is this how they communicate,? He said he liked me and that I was prettie. I am from africa. I seem to only date German men…. I met my current German a couple months ago after a festival. The next day I woke up with a bit of regret as I had really wanted to see him again. To my surprise, later on that day I received a phone call, which I ignored and then a message came through on my phone, it was him…he wanted to see me…I knew he only had a few days left in Barcelona and then was going back home to Germany and I knew I had to see him again.

    He ended up coming to stay at my house, for what was supposed to only be two nights…. He had to leave after that week and to be honest, I thought it was just going to kind of fizzle out and he would just become a crazy, summer fling. After about a week of talking he said we should try phone calls cause he really missed hearing my voice…. One day he got sick of phone calls and ended up video calling me…from then on, each video call would end up being about 6 hours and always at night time as we were both fairly busy during the days.

    But we would talk about everything, laugh, make jokes, and usually by the end of it, we would both fall asleep on the video chat and one of us would just hang up. He was always really sweet with me, but never really would come out and say if he thought I looked nice or that he missed me or anything really like that. However I had plans to fly to the UK and last minute ended up inviting him, which he agreed to. I mean I had noticed that the last few times we spoken on video calls, he would look at me a bit differently, and he would smile at me a lot more, the look in his eyes was a lot more loving than in the beginning, but he had never said something like that to me.

    I have always been crazy attracted to him and we have this insane chemistry but hearing him actually say things like this to me…makes me even more crazier about him. At the end of the conversation we were both so tired and had already had about 19 connections problems, switched from whatsapp to Skype and back to whatsapp about 7 times and been on the phone for 4 hours…we decided to hang up.

    Your article is inspiring. I love the Germans ,already. What are some of the dating site where I can meet them? Your email address will not be published. February 12, at 2: June 6, at 9: Thank you for sharing your story! July 23, at 9: January 17, at 3: January 27, at 7: Hi Nettie, Have you now met up with the German? August 29, at 2: I recently met eastberlinpa on Match. May 18, at